Be Otter

This first way of learning how to flirt with a woman is simple, go to your DVD and pick up a copy of your favorite movie. In my collection that movie is Animal House.  Ignore the drunken shenanigans and look at Otter. Otter (aptly named for such a smooth guy) approaches every woman as a conquest and every man as a possible friend. Even his darkest days (getting beat up by a rival fraternity) come with a quip.

If you want to learn this method of learning how to flirt with a woman, watch and repeat. Notice that Otter sells every flirty line, because he is completely serious. Remember that you are not skeezy, but a man who knows what he wants and gets it.

Harassment=No action

If you try to flirt with a woman using the above method and she blows you off, just leave. One of the things to be mindful of when learning how to flirt with a woman, is knowing when you have failed and get out.

When you fail to flirt with a woman it can end in three ways, self inflicted humiliation, she humiliates you or you just walk off. The third option is the best. There is no reason for you to flirt with a woman to the point that you look like a clown. When a woman's sign is "stop" just leave quickly amigo.

Be Witty

If you are a smart and funny guy, learning how to flirt with a woman will not be a problem. You have to think on your feet and be able to tell a joke as well as compliment a woman at the same time. For example, there is a drunk man trying to flirt with a woman, he is rebuffed and you enter. You have exactly 5 seconds to make a joke and give a compliment. In those five seconds, pull a Kobe and close the deal. Be calm and deliver a joke and name. Firstly, the negative situation has turned into a positive (for the woman) and you look better by comparison.

Let her know you are interested

When you walk up to a woman to flirt what do you say? Say you follow the above advice, what then? A man needs to let a woman know he is interested beyond "you look hot."  Let her know that she is the one. Not your everlasting love, but a woman you would want to be with and be around.

When learning how to flirt with a woman use these techniques and you will notice an improvement in your "game". For other tips on how to flirt with women consult your DVD shelf, just like you learned how to kiss from watching movies, you can learn how to flirt too.